An incident that shook the thoughts

An incident that happened a month back... Silently in my heart prayed for the brave soul to get some peace however never expected that she would rest in peace..hardly had she lived her life with just 23 years to her credit. but the way it came to an end was very very painful.... if we give it a second I am sure we can feel the brutal pain that she had gone through, but the courage she showed even being in so much pain has instituted a deep sense of realisation among each and everyone of us who understand and respect a person's individualism.

Not that something so demeeing has happened for the first time but the courage she showed even in the worst state she was in has hit the nail and has made people think deep and react... Many reactions and actions have come from several fronts, not all according to me were correct, however everyone hold there right of expression but while expressing anything in public must remember that the brave girl deserves Utmost RESPECT from each and every human (Remember HUMAN)......

This incident has definitely shown how insensative people become when they commit such crime. I would not comment on any statements made by social groups, leaders from different segments but would definitely like to ask and know:

How justified is the decision to apply more restrictions on the suffering sect of the society.
Why there is delay in punishing the culprit even after so many evidences. why is the procedure so long.

At the end of all this would hope and pray that justice be done and the brave soul be shown due respect all that she RIGHTLY DESERVES......

Right or Wrong

Am I crazy or the world is crazy...... most of the time we end up thinking that world is crazy even though bottom of our heart knows that the craziest person on earth is you yourself.....The feeling is intense but the realization is difficult to come as we always rate ourselves as bar above the general crowd.... har koi apne aap ko shaana hi samjhta hai.... nothing wrong in that though till the time the bottom of your heart knows the truth.......
everything in this world cannot be classified between just RIght and Wrong..... life events cannot be like an objective paper EITHER/OR........ they are like subjective exams..... you write so many things and whether you pass or fail depends on who is examining agar koi strict hua to FAIL nahi to warning ke saath PASS yaa baut ache hue to DISTINCTION.........

Everyone judges others life and gives a judgement in either/or conditions but when it comes to judging our own events and life it all becomes situational...... tussle between Heart and Mind starts and ends in no clear judgement........ why why why does that happen even if I am shaana ..... reason is we know ourselves so very well that it becomes difficult to say in just an either/or what it means. In short terms we can never judge ourselves fairly so when someone passes a comment, should hear it without thinking ki "yeh mere ko janta hi kitna hai".........

After all the above lines it probably would appear ki hum apne aapko shayad sabse kum jante hai but thats not probably what I meant....... I just want to make a comment and that is that..... everything in life cannot be just Either/Or Right/Wrong .... somethings can be beyond just being correct/incorrect and those things shall be left at heart's discretion............at the bottom of the heart you must just be ready to accept yourself the way you are and also have others accept you the way you are although thats not that simple.....

A Bon Voyage.....

........It was trip of lifetime each and every moment filled with different emotions and .........feelings........Well the start itself was jerky.....

My Bro getting married on his bday itself and informs me just 20 days in advance and wants the tickets to be done immediately........ its hard time to find flights on such a short notice...... then after 4 days he tells me that the wedding has be pre-poned for 4 days, so in short I had already lost 8 days on ticket bookings so that atleast leads to 8% inflation on the tickets ;)

I somehow managed to crack a deal after 3 days of head scratching and nail bitting........I was relaxed chalo sab theek se ho gaya now I can attend my Brother's wedding.......

On the day of travel I had to leave for airport directly from my office which is like 30kms roughly 1 hour sud be enough I still left with more 45 min in hand.............. now what cud go wrong.......here they start going wrong.....

No bus near office whr at times there are 3 buses standing at the same time today when I needed it the most there was none and time was slipping second by second......next wht......

Plan B - go to next stop whr cud be there are more bus options..... till now 10 minutes are gone by the time we reach at the next stop its already 15 min........ Now I just have30 min in spare..... and time for typical and authentic Mumbai traffic...... cud it be worse than this....... if you are thinking this is the end......its just the beginning................

No bus for next 15 min and no auto ready to go...... finally used old contacts and got a taxi........ took another 5 min.......... so like hopes of boarding the flight is getting dimmer and dimmer every second.................. the 1st question to the Taxi person...... "1 ghante mein pahucha paaoge airport yaa nahi".... he fires a question back "Domestic or International"....... I am like damn confident had to be domestic.........what to ask in this......

From whr we were standing the taxi took a U turn for DOMESTIC....... now what....... running speeding across all parts of mumbai...... whenever the taxi slows its speed.... my heart was sinking.......... like titanic.......

exactly 1 hour and 3 minutes(to be precise because even a second counts)so now exactly 50 minutes left for the flight to leave..... I was relaxed that I have reached well in time and there was a surpise awaiting .......I was informed at the counter that flight would take off from INTERNATIONAL airport and I was at Domestic...... another 10 kms + mumbai traffic thats unbeatable jaha bhagwaan bhi madad nahi kar sakti............

The auto guy ready to drop me in 15-17 min with 300 bugs....... but the International flight checkin time and counter closes 1hour before so was in 2 minds whether to go to International nd waste 300 bugs or not........

took my chance thought bhagwaan inta boora nahi kaarega ki mere bhai ki shaadi mein main naa pahuch paau.......................there was so much risk but I took a chance and ran in the auto..... next thing my instant reaction....... call the airlines may be request works..... called requested nd kinda begged ki pls mujhe flight mein baitha lo pls pls as if main nahi jaaungi to bhai ki shaadi nahi hogi but that was how it was...... i was like damn damn nervous....... did not know ki next 10 min mein kya hone vaala hai........they agreed to wait for 10 min max and the autowala was riding high as if auto nahi metro express train ho........traffic se joojhte joojhtee finally in 13 minutes I was there......... you will think thats it now things are OK...... still not over

I reached nd went to collect my boarding pass he asked me what all I have in luggage........... you knw the extra bit of security at INTERNAtional airport was killing now........ I got some beautiful glass and crystal stuff for gift...... the official now become villan..... you cannot carry all this....... you will have to throw it away etc etc...... i WAS like shiit hoiw can all this happen to me yaar........ by now I just had 20 min left for the flight to leave so I decided to leave the stuff and board..........but then things started to straighten up...... the Security official gave me a chance and passed the stuff through scanning and it cleared without issue......I started running from there as just 15 min left.............

In next 3 min I was at the gate with an Airline crew member travelling towards the airlines as the last passenger to ONBOARD........

This was the THE MOST ultimate experience for me till date.......hope you guys enjoy reading it......

Life and its Web

When we think about Life we forget the good things that it has given us and keep only crying abt its struggles..........

Lets analyse someone like mine's life - I most of the time think "Life ne mujhe diya hi kya hai - kismat hi kharaab hai meri -life stagnate ho rahi hai.... nothing remarkable is happening- etc etc" all like bad things but is everything really bad..... NOT Really - lovely Family(mine nd extended both), Cool and Loving friends (jinse chat pe bhi baat karke haasi and rona dono aa jata hai..... dur hoke bhi itne paas hai), a respectable Job and Lifestyle ( there are many who do not even have basic necessities in LIFE and they have to struggle for each and everything everyday) perfect Life partner - what more should I ask from LIFE.....

IT's that our thought process makes a WEB around our Life and then we keep cribbling about something or the other because we are caught in the Life's WEB that we build ourselves.....

Though many of us do realise that we are caught in our own web still we are unable to come out of it WHy is a question everyone needs to ask themselves and get an answer.....

A Simple answer would be BE SATISFIED of one's LIFE because its GOD'S Blessings

Signing of for now and will be back again with some new thoughts........

Poles Apart

The name of my blog or rather venting zone speaks about one cannot be explained or rather cannot be bound in simple words or terms..... A human mind is full of ideas which themselves collide and contradict.Then how can we say that this person is Reasonable but at some point he can be very very unreasonable. lets take one more example.... we say TV is an Idiot box and I just do not watch but each one of us have at least one thing to follow on this same Idiot Box..... you might be thinking what crap I am talking but isn't it true, we tend to contradict ourself time and again.....

Well there is another way to look at it, while we move ahead in life, we keep conquering our own thoughts..... and that how with time we keep becoming more and more Mature rather more and then some years down the line see I have seen Payal (2001) contradicting today's Payal........

Its great to see ourselves grow and learn from world around..... build a view over the base thats built since the childhood....... A block over another......and thats the beauty of life.....

Looks like I am getting too serious and writing on a heavy point....... Next one will surely be on a lighter note..... thats a promise.....